Relationships are very admirable most especially when you see lovers who are quite compactable, understand each other, who also love and care for each other. But then caution is needed in every relationship because relationships are like eggs, very fragile and if not careful could break in your hands. The beginning of issues in every relationship starts with doubt and lack of trust for a partner, after which insecurity sets in and the once beautiful relationship would turn sour in a twinkle of an eye.
Building a relationship could be a bit difficult as it requires a lot of time, energy, and even patients and only a small lack of trust or doubt planted in the mind can ruin and make one lose all. That is the reason why partners are encouraged to trust their partners wholeheartedly but as an adage says, “There is no smoke without a fire”. This doubt springs up in the minds of girlfriends due to various reasons.
Girlfriends because several statistics have shown that the men are the cheaters in most relationships even though they never agree. There is also a saying that ” It is in the nature of men to cheat”. But these days, doubt starts to creep in due to some new sorts of reasons such as the too many apps today which boyfriends use to enable them to cheat on their partners and not get caught. These have made a lot of people worried, uneasy, uncomfortable and even unhappy. This act has also resulted in an increased rate at which people spy and even go as far as learning how to spy on their partners and not being found out.
REASONS WHY ONE WOULD WANT TO SPY ON A PARTNER
- Change in partner’s attitude from the loving and caring to the unconcerned fellow
- Excessive usage of smartphones
- When a partner becomes sneaky
- Insecurity sets in
- Excessive demands for privacy
- Lose of communication amongst the lovebirds
- Absenteeism from the home
- When a partner becomes an excuse giver
TIPS TO SPYING/DISCOVERING A CHEATING PARTNER
Firstly, you need to understand that the basis of every relationship is trust, and once it is missing I assure that such a relationship would never last. But then if you are uncertain about the change in the attitude of your partner, and you think something is fishy which you need to discover, or You sometimes feel your relationship is too good to be true. Then these following few tips could help you unravel the mysteries behind your thoughts. And a simple advice “Be careful”.
CHECK WHAT YOUR PARTNER TELLS YOU
Most men can not be trusted, they have made things very difficult for their partners by becoming confident liars. They most times put you in a state of confusion with their words, and lie to your face and feel smart and too good as they tend to always get away with their actions. Checking and trying to relate the past statements of your partner with the present could put you a step closer to your discovery. This is a clear one which can not be escaped because it came out from the horse’s mouth directly.
CONSULT HIS PHONE
Gadgets are one of the greatest technology that is still at a top notch. Almost everyone today has a mobile phone or even a smartphone. These devices have helped many to cheat with ease, Most of them can basically do whatever they want to do on the device. Consulting his phone does not just have to do with is contacts and call logs but also his phone applications.
There are many apps today that have made it very easy for communication, discussion, and even video calls with people in distant places, which could also be used to cheat on their partners. Apps such as Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Snap chat, Viber, WhatsApp, has been quite helpful in reducing the stress of having to explain the calls made on their smartphones while they cheat smoothly with the platform. The truth is most men have everything you need to know on their phones, down to apps which could appear as a game but in the real sense, it is an app to help hide certain documents and conversation from public view.
Just as there are such apps to make things private, thankfully there are also apps that could help unravel the secrets of your partner and also help you have a clue of anyone’s phone activities. Those apps are called ” SPY APPS” these apps helps to keep one updated about private information from calls, internet history, GPS location, messages, media files and most importantly social networking apps. This way you would know what to think and believe.
When your partner starts to safeguard his/her phone by taking it to the bathroom when going to bath, sleeping and putting his/her phone very close or even underneath the pillow, or always letting the phone battery to run down so that he/she does not have anything to worry about, then something is up their sleeves and it is a very important sign that he/she is hiding something, which could likely be that he/she is cheating.
SAVING OF CONTACTS WITH PET NAMES/ CHANGE OF NAMES
Pet names are unique names given to love ones. Pet name is not the same as a nickname so don’t get fooled by your partner. Once you check through your partner’s contacts and you find some names that are unusually spelled like”Nikky”, or a name that seems strange or more like a pet name, then you need to watch it because your partner might just be covering his cheating tracks.
STAYING OUT LATE
Be very conscious to notice when your partner starts to keep late nights, and most times not informing you that they would work extra time, and comes back to start telling excuses of different kinds of stuff. Also when your partner starts to change his work shift or tends to start giving you an excuse that his reason for staying out late is because he was hanging out with friends, then you need to watch closely as your partner might just be cheating.
GET A RECORDER
Once you suspect that your partner is cheating and you want to be sure so as not to jump into hasty conclusions, a quick suggestion is that you get an old phone you are probably not in use of, or a recorder and smartly set under your partner’s vehicle seat and when he is back from work you could take it out and play to your hearing . That is only if you can’t hear from the recorder immediately as he speaks, and trust me he would never know that you are listening to his private conversation.
BECOME A PLAYER
Yes, an adage says that “For you to catch a thief, then you must also be a thief”, and that is a simple truth. You can not catch a cheating partner religiously, either by seating and folding your hands to wait till your man tells you he is cheating because he would never do that. Therefore become a player and if possible beat your partner at it.
SPY APPS TO CONSIDER
A spy app is an application which once installed to a smartphone can help disclose private details of the owner of a phone to another. The reason spy apps are becoming so popular and effective, however, is not just totally on their amazing tracking capabilities but also their secrecy in doing what they go unnoticed. All you have to do is gain access to your part phone once in order to download and install an app, and you’re good to go! Mobile technology has helped us in a lot of ways, but sexting and cheating are things that are becoming a serious problem today. Using a reliable spy app can help you find out the truth about your boyfriend without him knowing, and can either save your relationship or save you from a lot of pain.
- Highster Mobile